Pulkit and Sejal walked the talk with their marriage. They arranged a simple marriage and it was not to save money for themselves. The couple saved about 1.5 Lakhs and donated it to charity. Pulkit gives us the reasons:
Linked by Jo. Join Blogbharti facebook group.* Expensive marriages have almost become a must, due to the fear of what “people” will think otherwise. Many (especially low-income) families are forced into taking hefty loans to account for the wedding expense. We wanted to emphatically break this unwritten societal norm. No one should be forced in the name of customs/society (for any matter).
* Because the marriage cost mostly falls on the shoulders of the girl parents, costly marriages (along with dowry) cause parents to prefer a son over a daughter (grossly unfair to women) #. While the ideal solution to this is equal sharing of the expense between the girl folks and guy folks, the best short term solution is to keep the marriage cost nominal, so that a major reason for not wanting a girl child goes away


The recently concluded wedding of a friend of ours also followed a not-so-common theme. Since he couldn’t keep the wedding low-budget (as much as he wanted to), he and his wife decided to match the wedding expense with donations. They saved on a lot on hall rent, decoration cost, etc. by holding only function (no reception), and made sure the expense was equally shared by both the parties. Their wedding card, made of eco-friendly, hand made paper, was also different, highlighting the afore-mentioned wedding issues/changes.