Sudipta’s fan club in the chat rooms is large, and largely composed of members of the wrong sex:

The fun with having a name that spells like that of a girl is that a lot of people also assume that you’re a girl when they haven’t met you. This includes email groups, mailing lists, potential employers, pen-pals… the list goes on. Some people are heartbroken when they come to know about this: one dude from Bangalore even added me on his IM, called me via Google Talk, and then upon hearing my voice decided to commit suicide (well, almost). :D On the other hand, when girls interact with me, they assume that I’m a girl. And then they come to know the truth, they are very surprised (and I always pray to God that they should be ‘pleasantly’ surprised). But I don’t know whether that adjective applies.

[Tip: Thanks, Manasa]